The problem of congruence…
The fact that you are looking for a therapist is a step in the right direction.
Often, we have a plan for how we would like our life to go. We have good ideas that we want to make a reality, and yet something does not feel right. Maybe you had a good idea, but it was not the right idea.
There are times when what we do on the outside does not match with what we want on the inside. Here we have a problem of congruence.
Thriving in life requires an authentic and truth-telling process to find your north star – not just good ideas, but ideas that resonate with your head and heart.
The Odyssey begins.
It could be that you need time to really reflect on what is truly important to you, not what others may have influenced you to believe is important. It’s time to take inventory as to how you hold yourself back, how you undermine your ambitions. Will you take the risks to thrive? Do you want to live ‘from the inside out’?
Your time is NOW!
Time is our most precious commodity.
We get the results of what we practice even if we don’t like the results. With your effort and willingness to change and my skillful means to work with you, you will discover your deepest values and aspirations to create your life.
And, as this is the only life you know you will have, it is even more paramount to make it worth living. The heroic journey is an exciting life, engaging and meaningful.
Hi, I’m Cliff
Profound love and acceptance opens up a new world of possibilities, enthusiasm and action. Often it’s our relationship with our history that binds us to cynicism and playing small.
My mission is to loosen the conditioning built up over time to create space for new actions, fresh choices and to live life like an adventure. The thrill of living comes from taking risk for authentic goals, being vulnerable with others about who you are and what you want.
I walk this path myself, and it has made all the difference.